How to Get The First Date
**Disclaimer: This is what I have found works for me on how to get the first date, and may or may not work for you.**
This post is the culmination of A LOT of trial and error. There could very well be an entire book on my errors, but that’s not the point. **
Here’s the scenario: Let’s say you went to the club and you met an attractive girl. You end up hitting it off and exchanging phone numbers. Now what?
After sending texts, and getting a low return on investment, it came down to ONE huge epiphany.
The secret to getting that first date is... drum roll
Paint a picture of what you plan on doing together.
Women are wired differently than us dudes. While we’re programmed to look at things logistically and with logic, women are programmed to look at things from an emotional standpoint.
There could be a TON of different things going on in a womans head at the moment you ask her to go out with you. She could be at an emotionally high point or just the opposite.
What most guys often times do, is ask a girl out using a logical point of view. He might ask a girl what she’s doing on Saturday, but she won't have enough invested to want to go out with him.
Any random guy can roll up to a girl and ask her to meet somewhere, BUT think about it for a second.
She has no idea who you are. She doesn’t know if you’re going to lure her into a questionable looking van with Skittles or whether your porn browsing history is more questionable than hers.
Point is, at the very beginning stages of your interaction, she doesn’t have enough invested to make a blind commitment into doing something that might potentially SUCK.
It’s YOUR job to make it interesting enough so that she actually WANTS to go out with you.
Simple huh? Try it out and report back to us by leaving a comment here, or on our Facebook page.
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